I just think of it this way.
My parents were both college professors.
I used to have a white friend that dated this lame guy.
White guys usually don't date fat girls and the black guys that date them don't mind because they usually run to drop down to their knees for a black guy in a heartbeat.
Fat Girls Can't Wear Tanks! As we turned the corner, we met face to face.
Luckily, through interacting with size-acceptance-promoting writers, individuals, activists, and media types, I've garnered a newfound sense of confidence, and something of a rebellious spirit when it comes to my fashion.
Maybe its that beauty is in the eye of the beholder thing or maybe they just want a white woman.
I don't encounter too many of those guys, but when I do I always feel like I need to take a shower after talking to them.